Ask a question, any question you've always wanted to ask. You may post anonymously. I will turn on comment screening and I will not unscreen them. When I reply, I will reply both to the original question and re-print the letter in a new post. The new letter will only be signed if you sign it. This protects people's privacy even if they forget to log out before posting a question. Note that I don't post replies to anonymous postings, since I don't think one can access a filtered anonymous posting. (Feel free to inform me if you know it's otherwise). If I answer, it will be only in the column itself.
Please post your question in reply to the most recent of my postings (unless you're posting a reaction to a specific piece of advice I've given in a previous posting). This will help me to find your letter if I decide to post it to the column.
I am not trained in any way, except for having experienced life and have seen what has worked or not worked for me. I also have many friends to whom I can refer questions with which I don't have experience.
Please don't make up stories. I would prefer to try to offer real advice for real situations.
Please do not be offended if I don't "print" your letter for the column itself - I plan to have a maximum of maybe three letters per post, so that I don't spam people's friends pages.